HeresMyAccount: Gothic and Risen are like that? Great, I didn't realize it! I've played them a little but not much.
Yeah I like JRPGs like FF and especially Wild Arms 4/5! But I was looking for something actually open world, where everything is connected and it's a huge world, not just a "world map" that just sort of acts like scenery with random encounters.
Fortunately I do have a Wii so I can play Xenoblade, but I didn't realize it was like that. If I'm not mistaken, that's one of those real-time action RPGs that you control one character at a time and the rest have AI, right? Not my favorite way for it to work, and it's really expensive for some reason, but I'll get it if I ever see it for a reasonable price.
GTA? I always thought of that more as a sandbox game (as I understand it, a connected, but relatively small world, in which you quickly but repeatedly visit a bunch of areas). Maybe I'm wrong. Also, it's a driving and action game but hardly an RPG. I'm not sure I specified but I want it to be role-playing at least in some ways.
Stalker is definitely good. It's kind of a poor man's Fallout 3, but without all the branching that I hate. I played it for a while but gave up because it's REALLY tough! But I'll try it again one of these days.
STALKER isn't a poor man's FO3. It is more like the game FO3 wishes it was with tight FPS action. FO3 tried but kept it too rpg like. A shotgun blast to the face at point blank range should be the last word in a battle, not a joke for a raider to laugh off because my shotgun skill isn't high enough .